…Tips for Dating Artists…
A completely unscientific exploration of the perils of sleeping with art junkies.
#1. Consider dating someone else. As in, someone who might love you more than they love blank slabs of canvass and empty sheets of paper. 🙂
#2. When planning dates, dinners, or long nights on the couch watching Netflix, consider the extremely high odds of having to do many of these things by yourself. Master the phrase: “Dinner reservations for one, please!”
#3. “Five more minutes,” actually means thirty more minutes. The formula used when determining how much longer an artist will be involved in their latest
stick-figure drawing masterpiece is:
Time They Stated multiplied by 6 = Actual Time Until They Emerge from the Darkness
#4. The love of your life’s studio will either look like this:
…there is no in-between.
#5. Your lover can never have too many brushes. Or pencils. Or sticks of charcoal.
#6. If you leave a coffee mug out in the open, it’s no longer a coffee mug. It’s a paintbrush caddy. Deal with it.
#7. Keep them away from the kitchen sink and master bathroom at all costs. Detour them to a guest bathroom, preferably one with a sink whose color is something other than white.
#8. After hugs, make-out sessions, lovemaking, or accidentally shoulder bumps in the basement, check your entire body and all your clothing for unexpected paint spots (and other stains.)
#9. If you decide to have children, consider that one day you’ll probably come home to this:
#10. When critiquing their art (which you should avoid at all costs, but which you’ll be forced to do every day of your life) compare your beau’s latest art to someone famous. Or…if you want to break up, just make a stink-face and walk away without saying anything.
#11. Google the terms ‘abstract‘ ‘surrealism‘ ‘impressionism‘ and ‘realism.’ Use these terms when describing your lover’s art. While the odds are they were aiming for one of these, what they created is most likely another. But they’ll appreciate your lingo.
#12. Unless your beloved artist is really, really talented, don’t ever ask them to paint your portrait, draw you, or sculpt you. Trust me, you’ll regret what you end up looking like.
#13. If you date someone who paints with oils or draws with graphite, set aside a special room (or five) for them, and make sure it’s a place you don’t care about. Actually, if you have the money, buy them their own house to work in.
#14. If one of your lover’s clients suggests that a piece of art should be created free ‘for the exposure’ you owe it to your lover to kill that client and bury them in an unmarked grave.
#15. The minimum number of paper towel rolls to keep handy is 17.
#16. They’re probably not cheating on you with all the people (subjects) you found on their camera.
Actually, they probably are.
I’m only kidding.
Or am I?
Think this was funny? Try my Tips for Dating Writers.